And you gain nothing, reach nowhere, you simply get disturbed. Where have you reached? what have you gained by your anxiety, tension  disturbedness? what are you? where you moving? Nothing is gained…. even if something is gained…it may seem that through your being disturbed you are gaining something. You are not gaining something. On the contrary, you are losing. You are losing the precious moments in which can become blissful, the precious time energy, life, in which you could have flowered. And you cannot flower. Happyho also provides best Meditation and Tarot classes in Noida and Delhi NCR India area
But you always think- this is the ignorant point of view – you always think, “the whole world is wrong. and if you could change everybody then I would be happy.” You will never be happy, you cannot be happy – this is the base of unhappiness. Once you understand that it is not for you to change the whole world, the only thing that you can do its to change yourself.
Bayajid, a sufi mystic, has written in his autobiography, “When I was youngI thought and I said to God, and in all my prayers this was the base: ‘Give me energy so that I can change the whole world’ Everybody looked wrong to me. I was a revolutionary and I wanted to change the face of the earth.
When I became a little more mature I started praying: this seems to be too much. Life is going out of my hands- almost half of mil life is gone and I have not change a single person and the whole world is too much. ‘ So I said to God, “My family will be enough. Let me change my family.”
“And when I became old” says Bayazid, “I realised that even the family is too much and who am I to change them? Then I realised that if I can change myself that will be enough, more than enough. I prayed to God, Now I have to the right point. At least allow me to do this. I would like to change myself.’
“God replied, ” Now there is no time left. This you should have asked in the beginning. Then there was a possibility.”
This everybody asks in the end. One who asks in the beginning, he has understood the nature of things. He understands that even to change oneself is not an easy thing. You are a whole world within you: you carry the world world. not a small thing – if this change can happen you have attained.