All differences are in the periphery, in the circumference. The physical bodies are all different from each other, but the non-physical stuff with which we all are made of is the same in every one. That is the reason in meditation as you move deeper and deeper the borders start to dissolve, and in the Moment you feel a vast expansion enveloping all that is. The Chaitanya, or Pure Consciousness, is the Light that shines in one and all. It is only when that Light becomes our nature, then we see that light in everything and everyone; love then happens, all actions happen, everything then is the dance of happenings. You remain Sakshi or the pure Witness. Unscathed like the sky!!
Bodhi Shuddhaanandaa