When problems arise, your brain is constantly thinking, constantly sorting and analysing information to decide the best course of action. The problem is, the only information your brain has to go on is what you’ve given it – what you’ve seen before and what’s happening now. The way our minds are structured, it’s far too easy to get stuck in a single train of thought. Allow this to happen and you are severely limiting your options. Happyho also provides best Meditation and Tarot classes in Noida and Delhi NCR India area
It is no wonder that it can be such a relief to talk to someone when you are feeling confused or emotional about a situation. Not only is it helpful to talk to someone who cares about how you are feeling, but new perspective open up additional avenues for you to explore.
When a difficult situation surfaces, seek out someone whom you trust and feel comfortable with who is not personally affected by your situation. Use this person as a sounding board for what you’ve experienced and what you are thinking and feeling about the troubling situation. Use this person as a sounding board for what you have experienced and what you are thinking and feeling about the troubling situation. Use this person as a sounding board for what you have experienced and what you are thinking and feeling about the troubling situation. The unique perspective will help you to see things differently and expand your options.
Choose your third party wisely. The people you invite to help you should not have a vested interest in the situation. The more your “counselors” are personally affected by the situation, the more their perspectives are going to be tainted by their own needs and feelings. The opinions of people directly affected by your situation will only muddy the waters for you and should be avoided at all costs. You should also avoid someone you know will simply agree with you. While their support feels good, it keeps you from seeing the entire picture. Sitting down with a potential devils’s advocate may irk you in the moment, but you will fare better having seen things from a unique perspective.
