If you can be a center to the cyclone that love creates, then your life starts growing. And as your centering becomes deeper with each challenge, as you become more grounded, more rooted, and nothing can uproot you – no problem can shatter you and you remain integrated in all kinds of crises-you will feel grateful to love because it is only through all those problems that this integration has happened.
Then one starts towering higher than love – and that is what grace means. When you love, and yet love cannot create any problem for you, then there is grace, then there is immense beauty of the body, of the mind, of the soul. And they are all joined together in that graceful harmony. But there is no way if you avoid love.
Never avoid love and its problems. Face them, accept the challenge and the trouble, but at the same time remain calm and quiet.