For centuries, marriage remained intact because man had completely killed the woman’s ego. Not that it was killed, it just went underground; it worked in an underground way. The woman became very subtle in her egoistic demands, hence the nagging and all kind of female strategies. She had to invent them because the man would not allow her ego any direct expression. She had to find indirect ways, but she had to show the man who the real master was. And every day, in every house, all the problems are about who the master is. It is almost impossible to ‘decide because the whole thing is nonsense.
If love is there, nobody is the master, love is the master. You both disappear into love. Neither the man is master, nor the woman-love possesses both.