The moment you are open , the meeting happens instantly . Existence is always open , the problem with us is that we are closed. The sun has risen but we are sitting with closed eyes – what can the poor sun do ? The light is showering but we are living in darkness . It is so easy to open your eyes , and the moment you open your eyes all darkness disappears . The same is true about the inner world : existence is always present , open , available , ready to fill you with love , with joy , ready to bless you , but we are closed , we are not ready to receive . We are living in a closed cell with no windows , no doors . We think this is more safe and secure . This is neither safety nor security , this is death . This is living in a grave .