He alone can win who has realised the uncertainty of life and the certainty of death. Then there is no ego struggle, no control or domination, nothing to gain nothing to lose! When we raise both of our arms in total surrender to the Divine, then the Grace takes over, life becomes a flow; ego sublimated to higher domain of pure love, such aspirant shows to the world that true happiness comes only when we give up the unreal and embrace the divine reality, live it, breathe it, be it.