Sex is more closely related to birth than to death. Birth is out of sex; birth is a sexual phenomenon. Naturally, sex is also closely related to death – but as a by product. Because birth is out os sex, death is also going to be out of sex. Hence the nonsensical idea arose in the East tht if you remain celibate, if you remain a brahamchari, if you go beyond sex, you will never die – you will become an immortal. That is foolish, because death is not something that is going to happen in the future, it has already happened with birth. You cannot avoid it. You can indulge ins ex or you can indulge in celibacy, it is going to make no difference. Happyho also provides best Meditation and Tarot classes in Noida and Delhi NCR India area
Death has already happened the moment you became incarnated in the body. The moment you entered the womb, death has already happened. Your clock, the clock of your life, can run only so far – seventy years, eighty years – it depends on a thousand and one things. But your clock can only run so far. It makes no difference how you live your life, death is going to happen. Death cannot be avoided.
The first thing is birth and death are both related to sex, but just by becoming celibate you are not going to transcend death. Death has already happened in birth, there is no way to transcend it. It is going to happen because in fact it has already happened. It is only a question of time unfolding, you are rushing toward it each moment.
So don’t try to be celibate just to avoid death because that too again is fear. The people who try to become celibate are afraid of death, and one who is afraid of death can never know what death is, can never know what deathlessness is. So don’t be afraid.
Celibacy can only be spontaneous, there is no other type of celibacy. If it is not spontaneous, it is not celibacy. You can force it, you can control your sexuality, but that is not going to help. You will not be celibate, you will be only more and more sexual. Sex will spread all over your being. It will become part of unconscious. It will move your dreams, It will become your motivation in dreams, it will become your fantasy. In fact you will become more sexual than you were even before. You will think more about it and you will have to repress it again and again. And what so ever is repressed has to be repressed again because the victory is never complete. There is no way to destroy sex by force by violence. There is no way to control and disciple it. The people who have tried to control and discipline it have made the whole world very pornographic.
