Did you watch when you invest too much of your emotion on anything or anybody you feel a sense of attachment and a sense of dependence; this is the bondage. When you are bound you don’t feel at ease any more. True happiness or joy comes out of detachment. Detachment is not heartlessness. It is to recognize that our soul is ever detached like the air that carries foul or good smell but remains untouched. It is the ego that invests and gets enmeshed and cries. Soul to soul relationships unknot karmic patches and fill you with true joy of the Spirit.
~~Bodhi Shuddhaanandaa~~