Tantra says that bondage and liberation, samsara and moksha, are not two things, but a relative phenomenon – of the same thing. So tantra is unique. Tantra says that you have to be liberated not only from bondage; you have to liberated from moksha also. Unless you are liberated rom both you are not liberated.
So the first thing don’t try to go against anything because you will move to something which belongs to it. It looks opposite, but it not. Don’t move from sex to brahmcharya, If you are trying to move from sex to brahmcharya your brahmcharya will be nothing but sexuality. Don’t move from greed to no greed because that no greed will again be a subtle greed. That is why if a tradition teaches to be non-greedy, it gives you some profit motive in it. Happyho also provides best Meditation and Tarot classes in Noida and Delhi NCR India area
I was staying with a saint, and he told his followers, ” if you leave greed you will get much in the other world. If you leave greed you will gain much in the other world!” Those who are greedy greedy for the other world will be influenced by this. They may be motivated and they will be ready to leave many thing to gain. But the motive to gain remains; otherwise how can a greedy man move toward non greed? Some motive must be there which fulfils his greed deeply.
So don’t create opposite poles. All opposites are related; they are degrees of the same phenomenon. If you become aware of this, you will say that both poles are the same. If you can feel this, that both poles are the same and if this feeling deepens, you will be liberated from both. Then you are neither for samsara nor for moksha. Really, then you are not asking for anything; you have stopped asking. In that stopping you are liberated. In that feeling that everything is the same, the future will have dropped. Where can you move now? Sex and Brahmcharya both are the same, so where is one to moe? And if greed and non greed are the same and violence and nonviolence are the same, where has one to move?
There is nowhere to move. Then movement ceases there is no future, You cannot desire anything because all desires will be the same the difference will just of degrees.
