The human mind is the most unpredictable phenomenon. Look within, you are such a contradiction. Sit quietly, talk out loud every word, thought, that passes at random. In a few minutes you will know how crazy you are if you are not a meditation practitioner for a long time. How can we expect others to give us that which we do not give to our own selves.
I have understood only one thing, the practice of awareness and mindfulness can gift the mind that is content and happy.
Shuddhaanandaa Brahamchari