What we are thinking is also creating its own corresponding feelings in our body.
Thoughts of anger, guilt, shame, lower self-esteem, fear or depression create similar feelings in the body Similarly, thoughts of inspiration, gratitude, compassion, love and forgiveness create a fragrance of its own. The external situations and persons 
are only reflections of your inner thoughts. If you want to enjoy better life, you have to take control of your thoughts.  
As you think so you become!