My effort here is to bring about a totally new kind of person . That’s my vision of the new man,that he should be able to love . He should not go to a monastery . He should live in the marketplace and yet he should be able to drop all possessiveness , all attachment , all clinging , all jealousy . It can be done because I have done it , so you can do it . I never say a single thing which is not my own experience . I speak on my own authority .