Human mind is the most unpredictable phenomenon. Look within, you are such a contradiction. Sit quietly, talk out loud every word, thought, that passes random, in a few minutes you will know how crazy you are if you are not a meditation practitioner for a long time. How can we expect others to give us that which we do not give to our own selves. I have understood only one thing, practice of awareness and mindfulness can gift a mind that is content and happy.